3 Orders of Business

First order of business… HOUSE!

A couple of weeks ago I decided to start casually looking at houses on the market because I like to buy things on sale, and the Great Housing Sale of 2008 is just about over.  We didn’t have a timeline, so I figured we’d take 4 or 5 months to learn about home buying and maybe put in an offer sometime in January.

Well, we found the house we wanted on our first day of viewings, and three day later our offer was accepted, and now we are in the “sign and/or initial 10 million forms and have daily heart attacks induced by stress and anxiety and sticker shock” phase of *almost* owning a home.  There is a SOLD placard on the For Sale sign, so I’m going to go ahead and say that we bought a house last week! But with basically no clue about anything. (NOTE: we didn’t go with the hacienda with Mexican tile and a pool/hot tub that I mentioned on twitter).

We were en route to Ouray when we got the phone call a week and a half ago.  I can honestly say that maybe the day before leaving town for a race isn’t the most convenient time to put an offer on a house because we were presented with the  the “actual cost” (which includes much more than just principal and interest) before reaching our vacation destination, and let’s just say that we were very grateful for the continental breakfast offered at the hotel.

So, all of this information is basically to let you know that I was, and still kind of am overwhelmed.  I haven’t regretted any of this yet, and we really are excited and we’ve already spent hours at Lowe’s comparing back splashes and I’ve made an HGTV addict out of Aaron in one short week, but if I seem a little distracted and all over the place, this is why.  I really don’t understand how people do this every day and carry on like no big deal.  Because I am having a cow.


Second order of business…Boston Marathon

The Boston Marathon opened up registration last Monday.  Last week all of the fast people (5 minutes under qualifying time and faster) got to register first, and starting today it has opened for any qualifiers with the fastest people still getting preference.

Technically, I have a qualifier.  The time I ran in Chicago last October (3:33:55) can be used to register for the 2014 race even though I used it to register for the 2013 race.  I don’t consider this a loophole as much as a lucky break, but it did feel a bit weird using the same race twice when just about nobody else gets that advantage.  I missed re-qualifying by a full 5 minutes in Boston, and after I fully recovered physically, I didn’t have the time to train myself into a BQ over the summer.

Before actually running Boston, I wasn’t planning on running the 2014 race.  But then April 15th happened, and running the marathon became much more significant and symbolic.

While I truly believe that I wasn’t denied any of my experience, I did want the opportunity to celebrate the accomplishment afterwards, and I did want to explore Boston without fear.  And I know the upcoming event will be so full of love and hope and pride, and getting to run in the midst of it would be absolutely incredible.  But I don’t need to go in order to feel healed or redeemed because I got to cross the finish line, and I got to celebrate with Aaron and happily send text messages to my family. It would be nice to go, but I don’t feel like running in 2014 is something that I have to do.

So, I’ve gone back and forth all summer.  Register or sit this year out?  For most of the summer, I’d been leaning toward going for it.

But then the money aspect.  With a house purchase (and subsequent home projects and remodeling because that entry way linoleum really needs to go) and a couple of other family vacations already scheduled, it is not financially responsible for us to spend the money to go to Boston this year.  It just isn’t.

So, I’m not going to submit my time this year.  I hope my spot will go to someone who worked hard to qualify (or re-qualify), and I do hope that it goes to someone who feels that they need to run 2014 in order to move on with their life, whether they were there or just felt very personally attacked as so many runners did.

Truthfully, it might not even matter.  While I didn’t consider my time (just more than a minute under) to be a “squeaker” last year, this year most people are predicting that it won’t be good enough get me in. So, this might be a non-issue.

Will I wake up every day this week, tempted to head to BAA.com and register?  Probably.  Especially when my Instagram feed will start filling up with pictures of entry confirmations.  But I am excited to train hard for another marathon, BQ again, and run the race (hopefully with my husband) in the future.


Third…Imogene Pass Run.

I ran, and I survived! It was an incredible race full of gorgeous views and some seriously badass athletes who run up mountains like no big deal.  I had wanted to come in under 4 hours, and I didn’t quite make it (I finished in 4:08), but it was such a great (and humbling) challenge! Plus, Ouray and Telluride are both fantastic little mountain towns. I should have the recap up in a couple of days.

Pre-race, ready to go!

Hope your week is off to a great start!

22 thoughts on “3 Orders of Business

  1. That’s a lot of big things slammed into one post. Congrats on the house. Sounds like you thought about Boston the right way and I am pretty sure you can train yourself back into a spot in the future. Can’t wait to read the recap of that crazy race.

  2. OMG YOU BOUGHT A HOUSE!! Congratulations!!!!! 🙂

    And bummed we won’t get to meet up in Boston in 2014 (the hubs officially registed last Friday) but I think you made a thoughtful decision that makes sense for you and the situation you’re in!

    And another HUGE congratulations to you for Imogene! That’s an awesome pic, btw 🙂

  3. I think that sounds like a great decision for you right now, and I love your entire thought process. Especially the part about knowing that it will mean alot to whoever runs that race this year. I’m sure there is a lot of emotion that goes into this decision.

    Congrats on the new house!!!

    • Thank you! I know so many people are really needed to be there this year, and I’m hoping that they can all get in. Emotional, but I am glad that I did get to experience the race last year!

  4. Congratulations on both the house and the Imogene finish! Exciting times for you! I completely understand your point on Boston. Having just missed qualifying to go back next year, I’m still licking my wounds, but everything happens for a reason.

    • OH NO! I’m so sorry to hear about your race. You worked so hard these last 5 months. Based on the numbers, it looks like a lot of qualifiers won’t get to run, and I’m fairly certain that my time wouldn’t have been accepted. And I completely agree that everything happens for a reason!

  5. Congrats on the house! That is very exciting, and of course you have every right to be freaking out. It is a BIG deal. Looking forward to the Imogene recap!

  6. Congratulations on the house!! That is so exciting. And the awesome run, too! As for Boston- I’ve been back and forth a lot, too. I don’t think my body appreciates two marathons in a year- I’d rather do speed in the spring… and then there’s also the possiblity (hope) that we’ll be pregnant by then. So I’m going to hope to requalify in Philly in November and run it in 2015!

    • SO MANY prayers your way for babies in the near future! After trying to do 2 marathons in a year, I agree that my body can’t handle it very well either. And based on your paces, unless something goes terribly wrong, I see you getting to be one of the first to register in 2015! I’m actually looking at Philly for next year because my little sister is moving out there in January.

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