Where I Was: September 11, 2001

Tuesday, September 11, 2001.

I was just 2 days shy of my 17th birthday.  I had not yet been to New York, and I had never heard of Al Qaeda. I really didn’t associate the “World Trade Center” with the two tall block buildings on the Manhattan skyline, and I certainly wasn’t savvy enough with the world to consider warfare in America.

On that morning, like every morning, I got up, and was in my “0 hour” Show Choir rehearsal by 6:25 a.m.  When I entered rehearsal that morning, the country was still at peace.  I walked through the doors to the choir room while others were at their desk, checking email, conducting business as usual in the Twin Tower buildings.

By the time I walked out an hour later two planes had crashed into the World Trade Center. Walking to 1st period, a few people were talking about plane crashes (which aren’t terribly uncommon), but nobody really knew the impact of what had happened.  When I got to class, my teacher had a TV on, and from that point, we knew that this was the day that would live on in infamy for our generation.

Some of the things that stand out in my mind from that day:

1) We had just gotten a new crop of foreign exchange students.  They had been at the top of the towers 5 days before.  They were scared enough to be in a different country far from family, but to add an attack on a place they had just come from was terrifying and very confusing for them.

2) Listening to the radio in 3rd period,  a reporter was talking from outside of the Pentagon. Suddenly her voice turned to panic, she started to run, and then we heard  a plane crash into the building in the background.  I will never forget the terror in that reporter’s voice as she realized that a plane was about to slam into the Pentagon right next to her.

3) My dad was in Scotland.  He had flown out 2 days before and we hadn’t heard from him yet which was very unusual.   He works for the federal government, and for many hours I horrified that something may have happened to him (early on nobody really knew what the attack was about or who was being targeted or where).  It was a huge relief to finally get a phone call that evening.

4) The complete eeriness of having every radio station and every TV station covering the event.  The country literally stopped and there was no way to ignore what was happening.  We were saturated with coverage, and we couldn’t escape.

5) I remember sitting in class, watching the coverage, and some girls were sitting there giggling and brushing their hair, gossiping about who knows what.  I have never felt such frustration as I did with those girls who didn’t seem to care about what was happening.  I still remember exactly who they were, and I am still annoyed over it.

Whether you hold Bin Ladin responsible, or you think it was an inside job. Whether you think the attacks were deserved or not.  Whatever you believe about the motives and events leading up to September 11th, I don’t think anyone can argue that every American was shaken and scared that day.

Thousands of  people woke up that morning expecting to go to work and come home at the end of the day.  Thousands of those people didn’t make it home.  Millions of people stood, watching helplessly as two buildings collapsed in front of their eyes.  Hearing stories like Mark Wahlberg’s who made a last-minute change to his travel plans, getting him off his original plane (a plane that went down) are scary.  How easily could I have been there?  How easily could those planes have crashed somewhere I was?  No matter what my views are of that day,  knowing that so many people lived out a complete nightmare still affects me 10 years later.  Remembering how I felt that day still affects me 10 years later.

Aaron’s family is from New York.  His dad grew up in Brooklyn.  Aaron spent his summer vacations there.  He was at the top of the Twin Towers on August 11, 2001, exactly 1 month before they would be destroyed.  His aunt’s brother was a fire fighter with NYFD.  Michael Bocchino was a responder at the World Trade Center on Sept. 11, 2001. He didn’t make it back out.

My Puppy Wears the Cone of Shame

Giuseppe lost his manparts on Tuesday.

He is 5 months old, which means that pretty soon he’d start becoming a man-dog.  In puppy terms that means he’d acquire a bunch of traits that aren’t ideal like humping, peeing on everything, aggression, and excessive womanizing.  So, based on the advice of our vet, we decided to get him neutered BEFORE any of those traits started to appear.

We actually got some very surprised reactions from people when we told them we were castrating the puppy.  In this day and age, I figured it was just a given that all non-breeding, non-show animals needed to be fixed.  Aside from losing out on little grandpuppies, I can’t find any drawbacks to getting him snipped.  People told us he’d be lazy, fat, and that he’d lose all of his playfulness.  I haven’t found any evidence to support these claims.

So,  I took him into the vet’s office bright and early on Tuesday morning and left him there with the sleepy looking nurse type person.  I spent all Tuesday completely distracted, wondering if he was ok, and I hated that he was going to wake up from his grogginess in a strange place with strange people. When I finally got a phone call at 2:30 letting me know he was ok,  I was completely relieved. 

I came home to find a very unresponsive, drugged out puppy who gave me an annoyed glare.  He was probably remembering that I was the evil villianous human who dropped him off at the torture chamber, and that Aaron was the nice, valiant hero who saved him.   He made it quite obvious that I wasn’t his favorite person at the moment. 

AND he was wearing and Elizabethan collar, aka Cone of Shame to prevent any wound licking which he wasn’t happy about.  I however thought he looked adorable!

 

But after a few hours he regained energy (and lots of it) and suddenly needed constant attention and cuddling.  We tried to crate him for bed (which we do every night), but he let out the world’s most pitiful cries, so I decided to let him out, and sleep on the couch so he wouldn’t feel abandoned. 

It didn’t help.

He was up all night crying constantly, trying to do everything in his power to get the blasted Cone of Shame off his head, hitting the Cone with his paw while trying desperately to scratch his head, and running around the living room like a crazy puppy, occasionally bumping into things because he couldn’t see them through the cone.

Tuesday night was ROUGH and I didn’t sleep.  About 2 am, Aaron came out into the living room, and laid down next to Giuseppe who immediately calmed down next to him (if I wasn’t dead tired, I probably would have gushed over how cute this looked).    I had been trying all night to calm this poor little puppy, and Aaron gives it a go, and the puppy is fine.  I think this means that Aaron should be one who gives up nights of sleep to comfort the puppy (and any future babies)!

I sent Aaron back to bed,  grabbed my pillow from the couch, and set myself up to sleep on the floor next to Giuseppe.  I guess he just needed someone to lay down next to him in order to be ok because he fell asleep.  So we slept rather uncomfortably for about 2 hours until it was time to get up.  

Since then, Giuseppe has been doing great! He’s full energy, doesn’t seem to be in any pain, and is getting more used to life as a cone head (we have to leave it on for a week or until he shows no interest in wound licking).   And even though he has a bad case of cone hair, at least he doesn’t have to worry about impressing the ladies.  I on the other hand have a stiff neck and haven’t been able to snap out of the exhaustion (neither has Aaron).

But at least I won’t have a humping puppy.

 

 

Training Tuesday Week 4…on a Wednesday

I love 3 day weekends.

But after a 3 day weekend, I am completely confused, disoriented, and behind for the rest of the week.   

So, I normally write about half marathon stuff on Tuesdays because both Training and Tuesday start with T.  Unfortunately, it didn’t work out that way this week.  So, we’re doing Training Tuesday on a Wednesday because it kind of feels like it should be Tuesday anyway.

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I took off a whole week from training.  I wasn’t feeling well, and Aaron agreed that I was better off taking it easy than making myself worse. After sitting comatose for 6 days,  I expected Monday’s run to be nothing short of hellacious. 

But by some weird cosmic occurence, I felt strong and energetic.  Maybe weeks off should be incorporated into the training plan? I have finally felt back to normal during the last 3 days, and I think my body is finally realizing that it better get with the program or suffer the painful consequences.  And I really want to run a 22 minute 5-K next Sunday, so my body can either accept it or crash and burn in the middle of a bunch of happy shiny running people at the race.

TRAINING PLAN: WEEK 4 

SATURDAY: Rest day

SUNDAY: 5-k race (or a 3.1 mile run at full racing speed)

MONDAY: Easy 3 mile run, strength training

TUESDAY: Hill Training: 2 mile warm-up run, 14 uphill sprints (recovery run back down), 1.5 mile cool-down run

WEDNESDAY: 3 mile run, strength training

THURSDAY: 40 minute tempo run: 10 minute warm-up, 20 minute at a 10-K pace, 10 minute cool-down

FRIDAY: Rest

And resting is exactly what I’m going to do right now.  I slept 2 hours last night, so I’m in no condition to be awake right now. 

GOODNIGHT!

 

 

Not At All A Bad End To Summer

Well, Welcome to fall, I guess….(P.S. I am rather sleep deprived, work stressed, and worried about my poor little puppy who is getting his you-know-whats chopped off as we speak…so this may make no sense whatsoever.  AND I mostly wrote it yesterday, so it sounds kind of present tense when it really isn’t).

I’m amazed every year how, magically, the weather seems to know that it is Labor Day.   Thursday night was rather warm but by Saturday night, temperatures cooled, and now the reality of the ending summer is hitting me. 

Although, if this has to be the last “real” weekend of summer, then at least we took full advantage of the fleeting warm weather to be outside and have some fun!

1) Homemade Happy Hour!  Last week I put in enough hours to leave a couple of hours early on Friday without feeling bad about it, so our weekend got to start a little bit early!  I had been feeling a little under the weather all week and wasn’t looking so cute by Friday, so instead of going out for happy hour, Aaron whipped up a feast with a little help from our friends at Trader Joe’s and Santa Fe Brewing Company.  We had Freestyle Pilsner, grilled pineapple, sweet potato fries, prosciutto wrapped asparagus, turkey meatballs, grilled shrimp, and pita chips.  Definitely a feast worth staying in for!  

Poor Giuseppe had to spend the first part of the weekend in a little cast that my mom made him to help repair a small cut he got on his paw.  We called him Pirate Giuseppe because he looked like he was walking around with a peg leg.

2) New Mexico Wine Festival!  Saturday kicked off one of my favorite events of the year:  The New Mexico Wine Festival!  Aaron and I take our wine festivals pretty seriously.  Because most of the wineries are small and locally owned, they don’t distribute, so we have to stocking up for the year at the wine festival. We make sure to try out everything, take lots of notes, and then buy plenty of bottles to take home.  Because this wine festival is typically very crowded, we usually  have to fight off sunburned drunks who try to get as many free tastings as they can.  This year however, we got there right at the opening, and left just as the crowd was starting to accumulate.

We came home with 7 bottles to add to our wine rack!

3) Bachelorette…I mean 40th Birthday Party:  Saturday night, our friend was having his 40th birthday, and based on the decor, I think the party had a bachelorette  theme.  Representations of male anatomy everywhere!  As a result, I found 1 picture that was blog appropriate.  Always a fantastic time with those wild and crazy friends!

 

4) Sunday Funday…er Family Day (not that family isn’t fun):  Sunday was a family day so we had brunch with my family, and dinner with Aaron’s family.  We went to Chama River Brewing with my family, and ate like rabbits with a salad that looked like a rabbit.  Aaron’s dad BBQ’d some chicken and we got to enjoy one of our wine festival purchases!  AND Aaron worked on his bike in between.

5) The much anticipated arrival of the PSL: Monday, I got to catch up with friend Kay, and since we went to Starbucks, I decided to ask the nice barista (baristo? ) if he could please make me a pumpkin spice latte, AND HE DID! They officially come out tomorrow (even though facebook is full of early PSL drinkers), so I kind of feel like a very special person because I got one BEFORE I was supposed to. (By the time I post this, they will be readily available).

AND I was dumb and took a picture of my cup, but took a picture of the wrong side that doesn’t say PSL, so I had to scan the receipt in order to prove that I did in fact have a pumpkin spice latte instead of just saying that I did. 

5) Another BBQ:  Monday night we were invited to a BBQ with some of Aaron’s coworkers.  We had to bring a side dish, so we called on Trader Joe’s again for all of the fixings (sidenote…how do people eat without Trader Joe’s?).  Unfortunately, we don’t have a party platter, and the only one Aaron could find  was a bright green one.  We left it there and are  not hoping to get it back!  (Aaron was almost too embarrassed to let me take this picture).   The BBQ was very pleasant, and I learned way more about outdoorsy stuff in Yellowstone than I ever cared to know. 

 So, now after eating more BBQ this weekend than anyone should eat, I’m sitting here watching the season premiere of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills because I am a RHOBH addict.

Tomorrow Giuseppe is getting fixed.    I’m personally ok with the procedure because I know it will prevent unwanted neighborhood puppies, aggression, humping, territory marking, and an extra $150 fine from the city.  But I am giving him a little extra love tonight because he will be having a long day tomorrow.  (UPDATE: Giuseppe has been taken in and left in the vet’s office…I’m kind of having an anxiety attack).

Welcome to September!

For as long as I can remember, I have been obsessed over the song, September in the Rain.  If you’ve never heard it, watch the video, and your whole day will be better for a few minutes.  Even though it doesn’t look like we’re getting any rain today, and even if the song theoretically takes place in springtime, it is a lovely song to listen to today all the same.

Welcome to September!

Even though this month signals the end of summer, I’m always excited for it.  It is my birthday month, and the weather usually cools to perfect 70-80 degrees during the day  And do I even have to mention the arrival of Starbuck’s Pumpkin Spice Latte?  Just 5 more days until I can get one of them bad boys.  It kind of makes the chill in the air a little more tolerable, and I can almost even get excited about things like scarves and colorful leaves and hayrides. Almost.

This September I’ve also decided to get with the times and start a twitter account.  I don’t really understand twitter.  There area all sorts of new terms and rules that I don’t yet know about,   and I don’t yet see the complete usefulness of the whole thing.

What I do know is that I can stalk celebrities and pretend to have conversations with them.  Hey @PrinceHarry, I’m watching you on TV right now! OMG @TaylorSwift. I LOVE your dress! Hey @KayneWest….still don’t like you even if you are friends with Jay-Z. 

Also, just about any job in Marketing/PR/Communications looks for proficiency in social media, and in the future I don’t want to be overlooked because I refused to learn how to tweet.

So I’m pretty excited about taking my celebrity stalking to a whole new level, and twitter talking to people.

I literally started this twitter thing a couple of days ago, and I don’t have many followers (and I’m pretty sure one of the ones I have is a twitter porn star, but I haven’t figured out how to get someone to unfollow me, plus if I got them to unfollow, then I’d have even less followers).    I also need good suggestions of celebrities, or companies, or people to follow, because Lord knows I don’t have enough social media distraction in my life.

You can follow me @lavenderparking.

I also decided to start the month with an updated  “About the Lavenders” page.

In other news, HAPPY ALMOST LABOR DAY WEEKEND! I’ve seen people all over facebook bragging about how they are already on vacation, which obviously makes me jealous and sad, but I’m excited for the weekend all the same!  And then I suppose I will have to accept the arrival of fall.  At least I will have a pumpkin spice latte to help ease the pain!